Saturday, October 24, 2009

Questions...

Why are the important questions in a relationship the hardest to ask?
How do you know when what you are asking is the right question?
How do I ask someone if they are in a relationship for just the physical part of it or the emotional part? Or both?
How do I ask if the questions I am having are because I am insecure or because I am scared of the possibilities?
How do I ask, and not run the risk of sounding needy or desperate?
Why does it have to be so hard to meet, fall in love, and get the happily ever after?
Why can't things just be...
Why do you have to work so hard to just be happy?

Friday, October 23, 2009

the X factor

Life was good until recently.
My X and his family have moved back into the area.
I recently ran into him and his wife.
Why is it that when you see someone like that, it brings up all the dreaded memories that you have tried really hard to bury?
The feelings of mistrust, insecurity, and heartache come back like it was yesterday. You hear the heartache all over again.
How is that one person can make you feel so low?