I try to understand why people say the things they say.
Why can't people say what they really mean, and not hide behind "gossip"?
The saying is true, if they gossip with you... they will gossip about you!!
Gossip and rumors can be very hurtful. When you try to get in the middle of it, you end up regretting ever getting involved!
I am the type of person that will tell it just like it is. I can't understand why other people don't do the same! Life would be so much easier if people would just say what they really want to say.
I wish everyone would learn to appreciate everyone for their differences! If you don't like what that person says... tell them. If you don't like what a person is doing... tell them!! How can we learn to be better friends, lovers, and neighbors... if we don't say anything!!
Everyone wants honesty, but few can handle it without getting their feelings hurt.
Life would be so much better if we just learned to be open and listen without getting upset!