Monday, February 9, 2009

8 is enough...

Correct me if I'm wrong, but most all women have only two nipples, right?!! I am not into women so I don't have a great reference bank, but I could swear I've never seen a bra with 8 cups attached to it!
What on God's green earth makes this women want to have eight babies at one time!!
When I first heard about this story I thought, "holy cow"! But now I am fuming over this issue!
This women from California already has a bunch of kids, why would she bring eight more kids into this world? She's single and living at home!!! From what I heard on the news, mom is kicking her out of the house because of this last round of kids born.
What was her doctor thinking?????
All I have to say is... she better not ask for government assistance!! She knew good and well what she was getting into and I hope she's got some kind of trust fund to help her take care of all those kids!!! Don't put it off on tax payers to help with those kids! I mean really!!! I can barely keep up with one, what makes her think she's going to be able to take care of 15 kids?
When are people going to get it... take care of what you can afford!

It's been a while...

Why is it when you really have something to say, your computer decides to crap out!
I am going to try and address just some of the issues that are REALLY bugging me.
THE BANK BAILOUT...
If you loan money to a company to help them out, should you be allowed to allocate where that money is to be spent? I mean, should the government have to tell the banks where they should spend the "borrowed" money or is it a no brainer? Personally I thought the money would be used to invest in things that would bring the value of those banks back into black. I certainly didn't think the banks would pay bonuses first!
Now, I am a single parent working two jobs, do I want my hard earned tax money to go to some rich guy deciding to buy the condo in Florida or the Bahamas? NO!!! I have to decide which bill to pay and which one I can wait on 'til next month!
There were of course commentators on the subject and most were in favor of Obama's idea to make the banks pay back those bonuses, but there was one guys who thinks the government should stay out of the banks business!
He had the audacity to say that government has no business telling the banks where they can or can't spend their money! First of all, it's not their money!!! They had to beg the government for a handout! Correct me if I'm wrong, but the banks did not get into this mess because they were frugal and saved their money for a rainy day! The big banks have squandered money away to the point where hard working Americans were on the brink of losing their jobs and risking putting us into a worse recession than we are in now!
If any company has to go to the government for a billion dollar bailout, I think "we the people" should have a right to say where that money is to be spent!
It just sickens me to think that these banks can continue with business as usual while hard working people have to make decisions on whether to buy milk this week or pay for medications!!!!!!

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

I'll keep holding on...


for something better.
Why is it the "older" songs still have so much power to say what you are afraid to say?

the past...

why do people insist on talking about the past?
why is it so hard to move forward?
Are they telling you to justify themselves? Is it that by telling the story over and over again they begin to feel better about themselves? And when is it enough? When is it ok to say, "enough already"!
Romantic relationships seem to be full of justification! More than once I've heard, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you". What do you do with that?
I have noticed with prior relationships that when the guy can't find what he is looking for, he comes back... why???? Those that don't come back, want to be "friends forever", why? The justification is always that the relationship was great while it was going on, and that we got along soooo well but let's just be friends now!!
I don't think any women truly wants to be friends with a guy that they were emotionally involved with, I don't think they want to hear about all the girlfriends, conquests, and listen to the inevitable question, "what do think I should do?".
I pride myself on being friends with almost all the guys I've dated, but I think I need to say that the idle chat, the shoulder to cry on, the voice that soothes your uneasiness must move on. Sorry.

Monday, January 19, 2009

Scent of a man...

You know what drives me absolutely crazy......
a man that wears a cologne that absolutely punctuates his personality!
the one cologne that really drives me up a wall and makes my legs and everything else quiver, Carolina Herrera for men!!! Holy Cow!!!!
And when a man sweats, and he's wearing cologne (and deodorant)... McDreamy, McSteamy, and all the rest Mc's.... all rolled in to one!
I have never been the one that goes for a guy based on his looks... it's the smell of him that will drive me crazy!! Or away, if a man has bad body odor...I'm out!!!
Smell seems to enhance the sexual experience too... I'm not sure that guys realize this about women. I would venture to say that most women would prefer a man that smells good during sex. I don't know that they have done a scientific experiment on this or not, but I would be willing to bet that women enjoy the experience more when a man is wearing a cologne that suits who he is!
I must say though, the only cologne's that make me want to run the other way are musky colognes... don't know why, but I will turn and run at the smell of musk!
So, men be aware... wear it and they will come! No pun intended :)

To fart or not to fart....

that is the question!
The older I get, the more tolerant I become of natural bodily functions! Why you might ask? Because they are happening to me at a much faster rate that I had anticipated! So... fart away!
I do think that people are still embarrassed by it, simply because you don't know if it's going to be a smelly one or not!
That brings me to another argument with couples, why don't they tell each other when something is not right? You would rather let your partner walk around with a nose hanger than simple motion that they have something hanging from their nose! Again I come back to the argument I had a few months ago about honesty. If you can't be honest about the little shit, how do expect someone to be honest about the big stuff.

No words...